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We define Toughness in our coaches manual as, "The strength to work hard and to work smart always motivated by a cause."

I had an inspiring conversation with a friend recently while playing darts in his garage (if you must know he won - smile).

 
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He has a 16 year old son who just "went through" a dating experience. My oldest son is 10 so I have not had this "honor" as of yet in my young parenting life.

He was not crazy about the idea of letting his son date … They met at youth group, things started off well, had some rocky moments and then came to a crashing end. Possibly not unlike many youthful dating experiences.

Weeks later the son opened up about some details he had not previously shared about the experience … that things got "unexpectedly passionate" at certain points, that he was severely tempted, that she was not as serious about waiting for marriage as he was, etc.

Even more unexpected was the phrase that came forth next, "You were right, Dad. Once passion sets in it is very hard to think straight. But I'm glad I've listened to everything you've taught me and I'm glad I said no and put an end to it even though it was really hard."

Needless to say my friend was supremely proud of his son and let him know it.

This young man was TOUGH. In our world of almost overwhelming sensuality, constant sexual innuendo, and the "if it feels good do it" guiding principle of life … it is truly TOUGH to live a life of purity and chastity, saving oneself for marriage.

This young man was motivated by a cause that he had been taught by his family, his coaches, his teachers ... a cause that he has now made his own.

This toughness is not taught or celebrated on our sports teams very often. Biceps, comebacks, and dealing with pain are celebrated.

Let's celebrate the honor and glory of leading a chaste life. Let's honor our young men and women, letting them know that they are TOUGH and that we are proud of them for not rolling over and giving up every time temptation knocks … and lets encourage them to also be tough and start over if they fall.

Virtue = Strength, Lou 
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SportsLeader will be hosting a Father-Son Campout June 1-2 at Camp River Ridge in Oldenburg, Indiana.

I realize you may live too far away to participate in this personally but maybe you would like to host one in the future at your place. If you'd like information, a sample schedule and other ideas just drop me an email.

The event is for fathers and their sons (age 5 and older). Even if your son is 29 ... come have a great weekend together joining men from all over the midwest.

Activities will include fishing, swimming, football, dodgeball, tug of war, mud pit, bonfire, obstacle course and an astronomy lesson from Xenia HS Head Football Coach and Science teacher, Bob Delong.

For highlights from last years trip, check out this video: https://vimeo.com/50258336

The adventure begins on June 1st at 10 AM and ends on June 2nd around Noon.

Coaches - please promote this as a possible team event. What better way to help your players develop into authentic men and make your team that much more of a family!

The cost is $40 per Dad and $10 per boy.

Virtue = Strength, Lou Judd 
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We at SportsLeader are blessed to have the support of numerous men and women around the country who believe in our mission with as much passion as we do.

One of those very generous people is Duncan Taylor.

 
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Duncan is the President and CEO of Taylor Made Sales Agency.

Taylor Made'€™s Core Values are Honesty, Exceed Customer's Expectations, œGoals Driven, Teamwork. Sounds pretty familiar right? Virtue in the business world as well.

Duncan serves on the Breeder™'s Cup Board of Trustees and Breeder€'™s Cup Board of Directors, Keeneland's Board of Directors and the Keeneland Executive Board. Duncan and his wife of 25 years, Carol, have five children: Marshall, Morgan, Danny, Madeline and Caroline.

Duncan has organized conferences, trainings and meetings for many years in the Lexington, KY area, and we are so grateful for his support, insight and encouragement.

 

Thank you, Duncan!

Virtue = Strength, Lou Judd

 

 

 

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Being that the school in question is so close to where I live personally, it hits a little closer to home. Let us pray for this student and his family. As of right now I believe he is still alive.

This is not about blame … it is about searching for a solution

Really how can we help stop this?

 
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At this point, it is not a question of IF this will visit your school, it is a question of WHEN.

Suicide has surpassed car crashes as the leading cause of injury death for Americans.

On top of that, more American soldiers took their own lives last year (349) than were killed in combat in Afghanistan (295).

Why? Why are so many people in the USA taking their own lives or attempting to?

I am no expert by any means but I'm thinking we need more focus on inter-personal relationships. Real, personal relationships. Not texting, not virtual realities …

All of us, myself included, need to love one another more practically, more consistently, more intentionally.

We need to mentor more frequently!

What is your opinion?

Virtue = Strength, Lou Judd 
SportsLeader Web Site

 

 

 

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I recently did a virtue camp with a high school baseball team here in the Cincinnati area. A virtue camp is a team building event where you focus on your team's strengths and weaknesses in order to forge greater leadership on the team. We tried something I had never attempted before and it went over extremely well. Awesome is an understatement.

 
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One of the coaches, Don DiGiacomo, reached out to former players via text and email. I believe he sent out about 40 messages in one way or another.

The message was basically - "Hey we are doing a virtue camp, could you write a short testimony about what playing baseball at the school meant to you and more in particular the position you played, share a great memory"

The hope was to receive at least 1 letter for each position as the ideal. So if you were a First Baseman for example you would get a letter from a former First Baseman. If fewer came in, then you would just get a letter from a former player.

Well in less than 1 week Don received about 35 letters. Every position got at least 3 letters. During the virtue camp, 4 more had come in.

 
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I've included one of the letters below as an example from Rocky Boiman, who went on to play in the NFL helping the Indianapolis Colts to a victory in Super Bowl XLI.

We ended the day of the virtue camp ... as the kids were going to bed, they got handed their little packet of letters, they were asked to be quiet (good luck with that part -smile), read their letters and go to sleep.

Since so many letters came in I think they are going to read one a week or something like that ... There is so much mileage you can get from this ...

Maybe you can't get one for every position, maybe you can ... but I definitely recommend you do this ...

As a tradition starter ... at the end of every season, have your graduating players write these letters so you can begin building up your stockpile if you will.

This will also help you build up your team alumni association ...

Virtue = Strength, Lou Judd 
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Coach D,

As a St. Xavier baseball alumni, I look back with great fondness on my 3 seasons of playing baseball for the Bombers. While I don't remember the score of any game I played, I routinely reflect back on the high caliber of men that I played with and the commitment to "team" that we all shared. I remember the pain of the 6am workouts, the beginning weeks of the season that were usually marked by snowfall, and the ending weeks playing double headers in the tremendous heat. But those hardships were a minuscule price to pay to beat Elder for the GCL or to make it to the State Regional finals in just my sophomore year. It was an honor to wear the blue and white and to have the memories of overcoming obstacles to achieve with some of the best friends and players in the city.

I was a player who played both infield and outfield which I saw not as a slight but as tremendous asset. I took pride in the fact that I was not a "one trick pony"...that if the team needed someone to make an adjustment and play not his everyday position, I could do it and do it better than anyone. To make a comparison, my NFL career lasted over 8years bc I was versatile. I could play weak side LB, strong side LB, MLB, Special teams, and even rush end. Where other players who could only play one position's career lasted maybe a few years I was able to play 4 times the average career bc of versatility. I kept making rosters bc I was more valuable to a team bc I could do more than the other guy. The same applies in the workforce or business world. Bosses, coaches, and managers want versatility because few situations in v,I've work out the way they are "supposed" to....there is always a wrinkle. Work to be more valuable than the next guy, it will pay off.

I wish all of you the best of luck on what I know will be a successful season in one way or another. Keep working hard and God bless!!

Rocky Boiman '98

 

 

 

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The dictionary defines camaraderie as: Mutual trust and friendship among people who spend a lot of time together.

Example: A genuine camaraderie on the football team.

 
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We all want it on our teams and our coaching staffs but many times the business of life gets in the way.

How about passing out a questionnaire to all your coaches to collect some more personal information to get to know one another better?

We have an excellent questionnaire for players and another for coaches.

Here below are four sample questions. If you'd like the rest, just respond to this email and I'll send you the pdf file free of charge.

 
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  1. Were YOU ever mentored intentionally by a coach or relative/family member? Explain the circumstances if so.

  2. Explain the best mentoring relationship as a coach you’ve ever had with a player or relative/family member. What made it so memorable?

  3. What is the greatest accomplishment/memory you’ve experienced as a player or coach?

  4. In your opinion, what would you consider a successful season for you and/or this team, this season?

Never Settle!

Virtue = Strength, Lou Judd 
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One of the most common objections we face at SportsLeader from coaches is the phrase, "We do that already." Meaning that they as coaches teach character and virtue in their coaching. 99% of the time they are absolutely right. They do and they do a very good job of it.

Some are content with what they do. Others want more.

 
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Larry Bird was drafted into the NBA sixth overall by the Boston Celtics in 1978. He started at small forward and power forward for thirteen seasons, spearheading one of the NBA's most formidable frontcourts that included center Robert Parish and forward Kevin McHale.

Bird was a 12-time NBA All-Star and was named the league's Most Valuable Player (MVP) three times. He played his entire professional career for Boston, winning three NBA championships.

He was a member of the Dream Team that won the gold medal at the 1992 Summer Olympics, was voted to the NBA's 50th Anniversary All-Time Team in 1996 and inducted into the Naismith Memorial Basketball Hall of Fame in 1998.

 
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Larry Bird is an excellent example of someone who wanted "MORE".

One of the greatest players in the history of basketball ... He did MORE than most players.

His daily program included a long-distance run, practice games with teammates, multiple sit-ups, and short-distance runs all sandwiched between lengthy shooting drills. No wonder he was such a superb fourth-quarter player -- he was in better shape than anyone else.

 
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While most players waltzed into the locker room the required 90 minutes before game time, Bird had been on the floor by at least 6:00, more than two hours before tip-off. In the loneliness of Boston Garden, with only attendants and a few Celtics season ticket holders present, Bird shot more than 300 practice shots.

He'd start with 6 to 10 free throws, move out on the court a bit, and then start firing away at a comfortable pace as comrade Joe Qatato hit him with perfect passes.

 
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Larry Bird could have easily said, "I do that already."

What kind of coaches do you have in your program?

Virtue = Strength, Lou 
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One of the things I most enjoy about my mission with SportsLeader is the opportunity to talk with coaches from all over the USA and Canada.

I had a phone conversation recently that I found particularly inspiring. It was with the head track coach at Franciscan University of Steubenville, Vince Oliver.

The point that hit me the most was when Coach Oliver began talking about the athletes on his team. "When a young person joins my track team they instantly become one of my children. I have six biological children of my own that I love with all my heart of course. But these young people become part of my heart as well. I become so emotionally involved with all of them. I care about them so much. I cry when they cry, I rejoice when they rejoice, I hurt when they hurt."

"One of my former athletes joined the Marines after graduation. When it came time to go to bootcamp, for whatever reason his family was not available to take him. He called me. I was so honored. Of course I went. He is being deployed oversees soon and I am going to see him."

"We have an athlete on the team, Bill Jones, currently who is ranked number 1 in the nation in Division 3. He is an outstanding runner, excellent student and even better human being. He is a graduating Senior and has already landed a job pretty far away. It hurts just thinking that we are "losing" him. He is such a leader and a huge part of the "heart" of our team ..."

All these quotes that I'm trying to write do not do justice.

How different our country would be if the majority of the coaches truly lived and loved the same way as Coach Oliver.

Don't be afraid to love with all year heart!

Here below is an article about Bill making history over the weekend. Coach and athlete making history both on and off the field.

Virtue = Strength, Lou 
SportsLeader Web Site

 
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Bill Jones Makes Division III History at Division I Meet

Lewisburg PA– Franciscan University runner Bill Jones won the 10k race at the the Bucknell Bision Invitational, running a time of 29:11.37 and making him the second fastest runner in the history of Division III outdoor track and field.

"It was the best race of my life," Jones said. "I surprised myself."

While the other members of the Baron Track team competed at the Westminster Invitational, Jones traveled to Lewisburg P.A. with assistant coach Daniel Kuebler to Bison Invitational, a Division I meet. Not only did Jones win the 10k against all Division I opponents but he also beat out the 2012 Atlantic 10, 10k Champion, Kevin McDonnell.

"I was with him in the first half," Jones said. "Then he pulled away about twenty yards and I started to gradually reel him back in. Then, at the last mile, I started to pull away."

In the last lap of the race Jones "unleashed the beast," in his words, and crossed the finish line a full five seconds ahead of McDonnell.

"It was one of the best races I've ever seen in my life," said assistant coach Dan Kuebler who is also Jones' head coach for Franciscan Cross Country. "He ran smart and he ran tough."

Jones said the tougher competition but relaxed atmosphere of a D I meet with limited expectations and pressure helped him run a faster time than ever. Jones was able to focus on himself in this meet instead of his opponents.

"I didn't think I was going to come back," Jones said, "I just ran my race and once I realized he was in reach, I took him."

Jones, who came in fifteenth in the 10k at the Division III National Championship last season said that all year his coaches have been telling him to just run his race. Jones ran nearly even splits for the entire twenty-five lap race, playing to his natural strengths as a long distance runner.

"That's exactly what I did," Jones said. "The key to success is running the race that you know how to run. I ran even and controlled and that's my race–and it worked."

Jones, who now rankes first in the nation in both D II, and D III and eleventh in D I, travels to the Penn Relays next week to compete in the 5000m run.

"I want to thank all of my coaches, especially Coach Kuebler for taking me out here. They made it possible," Jones said. "I thank my teammates for being so supportive. You guys inspire me too. Just because we're at different meets doesn't mean we're not a team. We're all in this together."

Jones looks forward to the National Championships on May 23-25, and said that the race was a major confidence builder for him.

"I didn't expect to run that fast," Jones said. "It was a 'winning' kind of day."

 
 

 

 

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Yes, even McDonald's needs virtue.

Less virtue = more complaints = less customer satisfaction = lose $ ... not good.

Sometimes we have to lose $ before we wake up.

Virtue = Strength, Lou 
SportsLeader Web Site

 
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McDonald's Tackles Repair of 'Broken' Service 
By Julie Jargon | The Wall Street Journal

McDonald's Corp. (MCD), battling back from recent earnings disappointments, is putting unusual emphasis on a longtime challenge: getting its far-flung workforce to provide service with a smile.

The fast-food giant, whose restaurant sales in the U.S. began to slip last year, is pushing franchisees to improve staffing and service amid mounting complaints about rude employees.

In a webcast McDonald's executives held with franchise owners last month, the company said 1 in 5 customer complaints are related to friendliness issues "and it's increasing," according to a slide from the presentation reviewed by The Wall Street Journal. The webcast identified the top complaint as "rude or unprofessional employees."

One slide said that complaints about speed of service "have increased significantly over the past six months." Another mentioned that customers find service "chaotic."

"Service is broken," said a slide from part of the webcast delivered by Steve Levigne, vice president of business research for McDonald's USA.

One franchisee said McDonald's has renewed emphasis on customer service since Chief Executive Don Thompson installed Jeff Stratton, the chain's global chief restaurant officer, as president of McDonald's USA in November, after two consecutive quarters in which the company missed Wall Street's earnings expectations.

"The new leadership has decided to focus on customer satisfaction as a real driver for us to build the brand and build sales," this franchisee said, adding that the company had been gaining market share for years. "So for us to maximize the potential that's out there, we've got to be the leader in guest satisfaction," the franchisee said.

A McDonald's spokeswoman wouldn't comment on the webcast or on what the company is doing to address complaints, and declined to make executives available for interviews, citing a quiet period ahead of the company's earnings on April 19.

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McDonald's, which has more than 14,000 U.S. restaurants, performed well throughout most of the economic downturn by sticking to its strategy of remodeling and tidying up restaurants and rolling out a steady stream of new menu items at a range of prices—from inexpensive snack wraps to more costly fruit smoothies—intended to appeal to more consumers.

But achieving speed and friendliness of service across the chain has been a particularly elusive goal, at least in part because about 90% of McDonald's restaurants in the U.S. are owned by independent operators.

In QSR Magazine's annual Drive-Thru Study, the only comprehensive industry comparison of customer service at fast-food chains, other restaurants have consistently outperformed McDonald's in those areas. In last year's study, the average service time at the McDonald's drive-through studied was 188.83 seconds, compared with 129.75 for industry leader Wendy's Co. (WEN). Chick-fil-A had the top friendliness ratings. Out of the seven major chains in the study, McDonald's was second to last in the "very friendly" ranking, just above Burger King (BKW).

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Some analysts say McDonald's is continuing to lose customers.

During its webcast, McDonald's told franchisees that customers rate good service almost as highly as dollar value, pointing to a National Restaurant Association survey.

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"The service varies so much depending on which McDonald's you visit. It can vary from very friendly to very rude," said Jane Fiedler, an office manager who occasionally visits the same downtown Chicago location.

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No doubt many of you have either seen, read about or both ... The 7-year old boy named Jack Hoffman who ran for a TD during the University of Nebraska Spring Football game.

More about it below ...

 
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It is an inspiring and moving act of charity on the part of many people, Nebraska Football in particular. It is an act of strength, an act of VIRTUE.

Wouldn't it be awesome if every team in the country "adopted" a young child with a serious illness and found a way to brighten their day?

So many of us, myself included, can get so wrapped up in ourselves and forget about the millions of people who have tremendous suffering staring them in the face on an hourly basis. We can help them.

 
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Let's not watch this or read about it and say, "How Nice." Let's embrace this act of virtue and repeat it.

Virtue = Strength, Lou Judd 
SportsLeader Web Site

To read more about it and watch his TD run click 
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It's not often that a spring football game will lead ESPN's SportsCenter. It's even more rare when something from that game becomes national news. Yet, yesterday's touchdown run by Jack Hoffman during Nebraska's spring game did exactly that.

You see, Hoffman is a 7-year old brain cancer patient. He was initially diagnosed in 2011 and has undergone two surgeries in the span of two years. He is currently on a two week break during a 60 week chemotherapy regimen. Hoffman became friends with Nebraska running back Rex Burkhead after his dad called Nebraska just hoping to get Jack a chance to have his picture taken with Burkhead, his favorite player on his favorite team.

"I didn't want to make it a one-time deal," Burkhead told The Daily Nebraskan. "I wanted to be with him throughout the journey."

 
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Since that September 2011 meeting, Burkhead has remained a part of Jack's life, calling him before treatments and checking on him after.

Over time, the friendship between the two spread to the entire Nebraska football team. Which brings us to yesterday's spring game.

On the final play of the game, in came running back number 22. Except, it wasn't Burkhead. It was 7-year old Jack. Lining up to the left of quarterback Taylor Martinez. After the snap, the Nebraska Red team ran a sweep to the right, with Jack taking the ball from Martinez and following his blockers through the White team's defense. After a 69-year run, which made Jack the high rusher for the game, Jack was in the back of the endzone, putting six points on the board and being lifted onto his teammates' shoulders and the 60,000 Nebraska fans were going crazy.

 

 

 

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